Getting Over Your Ex / Crush?

Hello everybody. I don't know why the hell am I posting this kind of stuff into my blog because I have never done anything like this before. Ya know, the kind of posts which gives ideas and tips on how to do this and that. It's as if I'm experienced enough to give tips. Despite my lack of experience, I just had the sudden urge to share with you guys on how to get over your so called ex or crush for a certain period of time. I can't guarantee you forever though. hahaha

# 1: KEEP AWAY FROM LOOKING AT PICTURES OF YOU BOTH. 

I know there has been a lot of people who suggests that deleting those picture of you and her/him is the best way to erase him/her from your mind and your whole entire life. BUT, don't you think it's such a waste to delete those beautiful and perfect captured memories? I mean, some of you may have worked their asses off just to take a picture with their crush because we all know how hard it is right? hahaha. As for those who were already in love, I also think that you don't necessarily have to delete those wonderful memories because one day later when you finally got over him/her, you will eventually laugh over the past. For the mean time, just keep those photos in a hidden place or even better, ask your best buddy to hide those photos from you. This will surely help you in getting over the love if you remain disciplined and focused. 

# 2: DECREASE THE AMOUNT OF CONTACT

It is undeniably true that you still keep his/her phone number, you still follow him/her on twitter and instagram just to get his/her latest update right? You're so curious to know whether he/she has found someone better and someone newer than you. The thing you should really start doing is to lower the amount of contact. Just hit the unfollow button and stop sending ruthful messages as you know that the feeling is not the same anymore between you guys. So just suck it up cause by hook or by crook you'll find someone way prettier and way hotter than your current ex.

# 3: STOP LISTENING TO SAD SONGS.

I'm pretty sure that the contents of your playlists are nothing but sad songs and songs which reminds you of your ex. Believe me, it will never take you anywhere. It will only make things worse and make your life even worser that it is.Well people, it's time to shake things out with songs like these:

Icona Pop // I Don't Care

Notable lyrics:

I don't care, I love it.
I don't care.

The All American Rejects // Gives You Hell

Notable lyrics:

When you see my face,

Hope it gives you hell,

Hope it gives you hell

Carly Rae Jepsen // Tonight I'm Getting Over You

Notable lyrics:

I wanna touch your heart,

I wanna crush it in my hands

Cee Lo Green // Forget You

Notable lyrics:

And although there's pain in my chest
I still wish you the best with a...
Forget you!

Kristina Debarge // Goodbye

Notable lyrics:

I don't care if I never see you again
I'll be alright
Take this final piece of advice and get yourself together
But either way, baby, I'm gone

Ashley Tisdale // It's Alright It's Okay

Notable lyrics:

It's alright it's okay,

I'm so much better without you,

I won't be sorry

Man Overboard // How To Hide Your Feelings

Notable lyrics::

Gotta hole in my head that stretches from ear to ear
I dug it out because I couldn't take the fear
And if I can't think
Well I guess I can't sink down
And I won't waste another year

Your Biggest Mistake // Ellie Goulding

Notable lyrics:

You know this is your biggest mistake
What a waste, what a waste, what a waste
And of all the things you never explained
You know this is your biggest mistake

# 4: KEEP YOURSELF BUSY.

This one tip here is very popular among all tips that I've ever heard of because it really does give a good impact. Attend to music classes, find a job, start baking, start cooking, start farming I don't care what you're gonna do but as long as it will keep your hands off of your phone and your mind off of the thoughts of your ex. The point here is that you really should keep your mind focused on something else instead of remembering the dusty memories of you and your ex. Try it to believe it. 

Well there you have it people, 4 tips on getting over your ex or your crush. Truth be unfolded, the only thing that's keeping you from getting over someone is yourself. You have to be stronger than you are now because in the end of the day nobody will help you unless you help yourself out. Enough playing with those memories and start focusing on something new that will assist you in getting over those feelings and affections and emotions that is no longer there to linger with you. Just remember to stay focused, stop reminiscing, stay positive and most of all believe in yourself that you can do it. 

Thanks for reading, Goodnight! 

p/s : I personally love the song choices that I stated above because all of them really worked out for me. 

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I'm too bored to write anymore. I'll continue later perhaps with something else. Currently reading the perks of being a wallflower.